You can appear offline to all Members while continuing to chat with Members you prefer. You can do this by changing your Chat Status from �I am Online� to "Invisible".
You can go offline from Shaadi Chat by changing your Chat status from "I am Online" to "Offline". Please note that this will decrease your chances of being contacted, as Members will not see you online on their Shaadi Chat list.
You can �Ignore� or �Decline� a particular Member if you do not wish to receive any Chats from them. These Members will also not be able to see you online on Shaadi Chat.